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 in response to getfreedental...   

Networking? *smiles* It’s funny you say that. I can see the validity in that statement as well.

Yes, thankfully there is a difference between 20k and 100k. I feel for the lady to be that far in debt. I hope she is able to get it relieved somehow. You said that Networking is far better than any degree unless I wanted to specialize in something legal. Doesn’t Criminal Psychology and the ambition to work as a profiler for the FBI involve legal work? Or were you thinking more along the lines of Attorney and Judge?

I’m very thankful to get such a swift response back. There are so many others here who seem to need the help that I didn’t think my seemingly small problem would be noticed. Even I felt a bit embarrassed to be worried about something like this when others are struggling to maintain food on the table.

I do have a question though. Would applying for ‘help’ on this site you linked me to make me involved with Military work? I’ve never looked into that direction before because I’ve always associated it with something that didn’t interest me. To put it bluntly, I am completely clueless as to what to expect from them. I don’t supposed you’d be willing to dumb it down for me? I’d really appreciate it.

And thank you again for such a wonderful response <3

Hi Benny

I know it's been a long time since your last post. Just wondering how things have progressed thus far?

You sure have gone through a lot. I'm sorry for the troubles your crazy mom has put you and your siblings through.

I wish I was my own 'Oprah Winfrey'. I'd love to help out people as ambitious as you.

So, do you still write songs??

 

 I’m a young soon-to-be college graduate who has a six year old sister and three brothers. Growing up I would say we were constantly financially strained. Despite this, I couldn’t get the funds to go to college. Financial Aid just wasn’t enough. So I had to pick up a loan. Now that my tuition is almost over, I have come to see that my cost for schooling has reached a little over 20,000 (money I need to pay back).

I know I can’t get help with it. So I’m just here to put it out there because I don’t want my family to know how much it has been stressing me. I’m stressed because I don’t want this to affect my family or my little sister who I hope to financially care for when my parents are unable to.

I think the reason I’m stressed is because I’m still not done with my schooling. I hope to pursue a Masters and eventually a Doctorate’s in Criminal Psychology.

You see, I want to work for the FBI as a profiler one day. And not having any other schools with this program in distance, I pursued schooling online. I didn’t know it was more expensive but I guess in the long run it’s to be expected.

If I only had a job right now then I wouldn’t feel so anxious with anxiety for what’s to come in the future. I’ve had jobs involved Academia (such as tutoring), and I’m picking up a position involving computer design at my little sister’s school. But it’s not enough. The money maker isn’t in these jobs. By the time I get enough money to pay off my debt, it will quadruple in cost.

I’m not looking for an overnight fix.

Can anyone give me advice on how to make it go away faster?? 

 

 

Hmm.. I highly doubt that this small box will have the room to define who I am as a person.. but I will try.

I am a fair-skinned redhead who has the strongest faith in God. If things don’t go well, despite my best efforts, then I accept them as how things should be. I have overcome many obstacles in my life in the past. I may be a petite girl, but I consider myself very courageous. I do not scare easily unless it involves the safety of my little sister. I have a strong personality but am kind to all people.

I don’t judge a book by its cover.

I enjoy dancing, writing poetry, sketching, painting (doing art in general). I’m ambitious; I like to dream big, I’m a health-nut. I love to cook all my foods. I have a huge heart for animals <3  Even despite my financial situation, I have kept a hyper kitten because he was abandoned about two weeks into his birth and left to fend for his little self (he was actually stuck inside of a stray tire in our backyard. Maybe his mommy didn’t know how to get him out?)

I have attended many runs for the Susan G. Komen run for the cure. I’ve done the same for Candlelighters (for Children’s cancer), and am anticipating a run for MS sometime in March.

I love to write and hope to publish a promising story one day. It will become a really popular story. I can feel it. Probably helps that I know how to draw because I’ve already designed some of the characters.

I am a fan of Sushi, Asian Culture, lover of Middle Eastern Cuisine, enjoy video games, a great player in Chess, and a counselor to those in need. My weakness include wanting to help others, even when I’m at the short end of the stick. I enjoy helping others, so one day I hope to be able to help everyone who is in need.

Even if I don’t believe in miracles for myself, I like to believe that miracles happen to other people <3

I go by a few actual nicknames- Lucy for my red head (compliments to Lucille Ball)

Rain (harder to explain without giving away my real name)

And Ria (as an abbreviation for my full name)

 

Good luck with everything!! ^-^